You do not meet such women daily!
'Mam I want to have IVF, and I want a girl child'.
Already have two cute baby boys, going for IVF for third. A tale that might impinge many.
Her both the deliveries were conducted by me, and as such you become little frank. Because of certain tubal issues in first and second, she is left only with IVF as an option. As you meet only male child begging people, this sounded very strange to me and I asked her – if can know why a third child and a girl child?
- “Mam I always wanted to have three children and all three of them girls. When I found I was pregnant, I began dreaming of a girl child. I named her and pictured her. I thought about all the things I wanted to teach her, to empower her and to help her set a new world for herself.
I told my #husband why I want this and am fortunate enough to have such a husband who agreed to my wish.
I don't have a brother; my father never had a son.
My parents never mentioned they ever missed out on a son, nor did they ever tell us we weren't entitled to do something because we were girls. We are three sisters, I am the eldest, all well settled and our parents are so proud of us since the time I remember. I always saw that pride in their eyes whenever they used to introduce us to someone, and we feel so proud of our parents.
I was the eldest of all till this moment when one day they cried infront of us and I came to know that there were three sisters before me, that I am the fourth one, that they were killed before they were born.
They cried because they wanted a boy that time, they cried because they want those three sisters of mine back on this earth, they cried because they feel so proud of us that they just wish what if those three were also alive they would have felt so proud of them too, they cried because they know what they did and can’t undo it now.
This particular incident impinged on my psyche that I wished if ever I can do something for my parents then I would do this one thing – to have three girl child with a wish they are those three sisters. May be this very thing console my parents, may be this very thing take away the wrong they did.
I had two baby boys now and I absolutely LOVE them. They are the best thing that has happened to me ever since I came into this world.
My wish of having three girls got fulfilled the other way – both my sisters have a girl each and now I want to have too, atleast I can try. Our parents named them and now I want them to name mine also and see the happiness on their face, with a wish that it consoles their soul and may god forgive them for something they did but can’t undo now” !
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